Best Living Will

Greetings, I’m Beatrice Bellwether, reporting for the San Diego Sentinel. Today, I have the pleasure of sitting down with Ted Cook, a leading estate planning attorney here in beautiful Point Loma. Mr. Cook, thank you for taking the time. We’re diving into the often-intimidating world of estate planning, and frankly, many of our readers are putting it off! Let’s start with the basics. What exactly *is* a living will, and why should someone consider having one?

Ted Cook: Beatrice, it’s a pleasure to be here. You’re right, estate planning often gets delayed, but it’s a gift to your loved ones. A living will – more formally known as an advance healthcare directive – is a legal document that outlines your wishes regarding medical treatment if you become unable to make those decisions yourself. It’s about ensuring your values and preferences are honored, even when you can’t voice them. It covers things like life-sustaining treatment, pain management, and organ donation. It’s not just for the elderly or those with serious illnesses, it’s for anyone who wants to maintain control over their healthcare, no matter what life throws their way.

What are the Key Steps in Effective Estate Planning?

Beatrice Bellwether: That makes a lot of sense. So, broadly speaking, what does the estate planning process look like? What steps should our readers be aware of?

Ted Cook: Well, it’s a bit more than just drafting a will. A comprehensive plan involves several key phases. Let’s walk through them.

A. Identify Your Goals and Priorities. Determine your objectives, such as protecting minor children, avoiding probate, minimizing taxes, or planning for incapacity. Consider your family dynamics and any unique concerns.

B. Gather and Organize Personal and Financial Information. Create an inventory of assets, list your liabilities, and identify beneficiaries.

C. Choose Key People to Carry Out Your Wishes. Select an executor, choose a guardian, appoint a durable power of attorney, and name a healthcare agent.

D. Create Core Estate Planning Documents. Draft a last will and testament, establish a revocable living trust (if desired), complete a durable power of attorney, execute an advance healthcare directive, and prepare a HIPAA authorization form.

E. Fund the Trust (if Applicable). Retitle assets into the name of the trust and update beneficiary designations.

F. Communicate Your Plan. Talk with your chosen executor, trustees, and agents about their roles and provide key contacts.

G. Review and Update Your Plan Regularly. Revisits your estate plan every 3 to 5 years or when major life events occur.

H. Organize and Store Your Documents. Keep originals in a secure location and provide copies to your executor, trustee, and healthcare agent.

Beatrice Bellwether: That sounds quite thorough. Let’s focus on step ‘H’, organizing and storing your documents. It seems like a simple step, but potentially critical. Can you elaborate on best practices here?

Ted Cook: Absolutely. Step ‘H’ is often underestimated, but it’s where good intentions can fall apart. It’s not enough to just *have* the documents; they need to be accessible when needed. First, originals should be kept in a secure, yet accessible location – a fireproof safe is ideal. Don’t hide them so well that no one can find them!

Next, provide copies to your designated executor, trustee, and healthcare agent. They need to know where to find the originals and have access to the information within the documents. A digital backup is also a smart idea, but ensure it’s password-protected and secure.

We also recommend creating a summary document – a checklist of your plan and a list of your assets. This makes it easier for your loved ones to navigate the process.

Think of it like a treasure map. The documents are the treasure, and the map – the organized information – guides your loved ones to it. Without the map, the treasure remains hidden.

It’s also crucial to inform your loved ones about the existence of these documents and their location. Don’t assume they know! Open communication is key.

We’ve seen situations where families spend valuable time searching for documents during a crisis, simply because they weren’t properly organized or communicated. That’s time and energy that could be better spent caring for their loved one.

Finally, remember to review and update these documents regularly, and inform your loved ones of any changes. Life happens, and your plan should reflect that.

Beatrice Bellwether: That’s fantastic advice. It’s all about making things easier for your loved ones during a difficult time. Now, I’m curious, have you encountered any common pitfalls clients make when organizing their estate planning documents?

Ted Cook: Oh, plenty! One common mistake is overcomplicating things. People feel they need to create elaborate systems, when a simple, well-organized binder will do. Another is keeping everything digital without a physical backup. Technology can fail, and you need a failsafe.

We also see clients who are reluctant to share information with their loved ones. They fear judgment or misunderstanding, but that can create more problems than it solves.

Finally, and this is a big one, many people put it off indefinitely, thinking they have plenty of time. But life is unpredictable, and it’s better to be prepared.

Beatrice Bellwether: That makes perfect sense. Now, let’s hear what others are saying about Point Loma Estate Planning APC.

“Working with Ted and his team was a remarkably smooth process. They took the time to understand our unique family situation and crafted a plan that gave us peace of mind. Their attention to detail and commitment to client service is truly exceptional.” – *Eleanor Vance, La Jolla Resident*

“I was initially overwhelmed by the thought of estate planning, but Ted made it easy to understand. He explained everything in plain language and answered all of my questions with patience and expertise. I highly recommend his services.” – *David Chen, Coronado Resident*

Beatrice Bellwether: Wonderful feedback! Mr. Cook, this has been incredibly enlightening. Any final thoughts for our readers?

Ted Cook: Just that it’s never too early to start planning. It’s not about you; it’s about protecting your loved ones and ensuring your wishes are honored. Think of it as a final act of love and responsibility. If you’re feeling overwhelmed, don’t hesitate to seek guidance from a qualified estate planning attorney. We’re here to help navigate the process and provide peace of mind.

Beatrice Bellwether: If our readers are inspired to take action, how might they learn more and begin the conversation?

Ted Cook: Perhaps they might imagine a path leading to clarity and security, and embark on a journey to discover what truly matters. Seek guidance, share your values, and create a legacy of love and protection. Let’s work together to build a future where every voice is heard, and every wish is honored.


Who Is Ted Cook at Point Loma Estate Planning, APC.:

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About Estate Planning Law – Ted Cook

Ted enjoys working with clients to create a custom estate plan to protect their assets and to make sure their wishes are reflected in their estate plan. He treats each client as an individual and takes pride in the level of service he provides.

Ted graduated from the U.S. Air Force Academy and was commissioned an Ensign in the U.S. Navy. In the Navy, he was a Surface Warfare Officer and served on three ships on the West Coast. While in the Navy, Ted attended the University of San Diego School of Law where he received his Juris Doctrate degree in 1989. After law school, Ted continued his active duty service in the Navy as a Judge Advocate General Corps officer. After retiring from the Navy in 2011, Ted became a partner with Tom Henry in the law firm of Henry & Cook, LLP focusing on estate planning. Upon the passing of Tom Henry in 2022, Ted started his own firm and continues to help his clients create estate plans that are individually tailored to meet their needs.

Education:

  • U.S. Air Force Academy, Graduation
  • University of San Diego School of Law, JD